Deidra Gray-Breijo

Your Ceremony

I offer several types of ceremonies, such as: Spiritual, Religious, Non-Religious, Non Denominational as well as Unity Ceremonies. Your choice of any of the above categories is your own decision and I totally adhere to your wishes.

The actual delivery of the ceremony is most important. I believe the role of an Officiant is not only to write emotional and meaningful words, but the Officiant should also captivate the guests with the love story that is being told. I creatively weave into the ceremony a sentimental, humorous, and, of course, romantic story about the couple and I engage everyone with the charismatic way in which it is told. This personal touch makes each and every ceremony totally unique. I endeavor to draw on all the emotions, from tears to laughter.

Clients appreciate my knowledge of many different cultures and my flexibility to include segments that are very important to them. For those couples who wish to include some traditions from their heritage, I wholeheartedly embrace their wonderful and interesting rituals. It is also my pleasure to offer a dedication to any dearly valued family member or friend who were not able to attend the ceremony due to ill health, or those who may have passed away.


I Will Provide:

A personalized and hand-crafted ceremony that will incorporate all the elements you request. You will receive a selection of vows to choose from, or I can help you create your own. Alternatively, you can write your own vows without my involvement. I will provide you both with personal guidance to ensure your wedding will be delivered in a warm, relaxed and sincere manner. As your wedding is the most important day of your life, your ceremony deserves to reflect your love for each other and your shared dreams and hopes for the future.

In Summary:

  • A choice and variety of magical ceremonies, with options to include your own material, family members and ceremonial traditions that may have specific significance.
  • A personal consultation to discuss all details of the ceremony and the running order.
  • Advice and guidance during the planning of the ceremony.
  • A vendors list of recommended vendors whom I have worked with over the years.
  • Information regarding the filing of your License and how to obtain copies of your License, and I will submit both applications on your behalf after the wedding.

"You did such a wonderful job on the ceremony, we were really pleased and really touched, and by the way, thanks for telling me to breathe! My mother was so pleased with the Persian Honey Tasting ritual, thanks for including that within the ceremony, as it's a tradition that has passed along for generations..."
~ Paul and Yasmin - Private Estate, Malibu