Over the past year, couples all over the world have had the disappointing task of canceling or rescheduling their wedding day. It’s been heartbreaking for so many who have had their beautiful plans thwarted, let alone the trials of trying to rearrange everything, and everyone, to a new date. It can prove to be an emotional strain – to say the least.
I cannot predict when we will get back to “normal” times, however, I would like to offer advice to those of you who are finding the current challenges slightly overwhelming.
With that said, embrace what is genuinely precious - that you are loved by someone who will be by your side throughout all of life’s hurdles. Embrace that this very private moment of saying “I Do” doesn’t have to be stated before a large gathering. Those two important words, and your vows, are really only meant for each other. And those who are privileged to be invited hear those words, need only be a special few.
Set a daily routine – perhaps allow just one hour in your schedule to focus on wedding planning, instead of being consumed for hours and getting bogged down. If you cannot personally visit your friends because of Covid, call them and try to keep the conversation uplifting and positive.